Title The Decision Book
Author Mikael Krogerus and Roman Tschappeler
Year Published 2012
Kind of Book Decision making/How-To
How strongly I recommend it 5/10
My Impressions This is a compilation of other people's models for decision making and thinking. Though there are some great quotes in here I prefer reading thinkers firsthand.
Date Read Feb 2020
Practical Takeaways
Reject projects if there is nothing you can learn from them
Reject projects if they do not correspond to your overriding vision
If a project corresponds to your vision, but you are learning nothing new from it, look for somebody else to do it for you
Aim higher (The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.) -Michelangelo
Distinguish between final goals and performance goals (ie goals that help you reach your final goal)
Make everything as simple as possible, but no simpler .-Albert Einstein
Make sure your goal is SMART-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is specific-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Measurable-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Attainable-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Realistic-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Time Phased-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is PURE-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Positively Stated-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Understood-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Relevant-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Ethical-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is CLEAR-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Challenging-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Legal-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Environmentally Sound-The John Whitmore Model
Make sure your goal is Recorded-The John Whitmore Model
Pay attention to your thoughts, because they become words
Pay attention to your words, because they become actions
Pay attention to your actions, because they become habits
Pay attention to your habits, because they become your character
Pay attention to your character, because it is your fate-The Talmud
Be bold with your decision making at the begging of a project-The Consequences Model
Have the courage to make decisions based on minimal information-The Consequences Model
Choose to regret what you've done, not what you haven't done A: I'd rather regret the things I have done than the things that I haven't-Lucile Ball
(Spaced Repetition) After learning something new review it/quiz yourself on it in the intervals of one day, ten days, thirty days, sixty days-The Supermemo Model
Promise 80% and deliver 120%-The Personal Potential Trap
Expect less of yourself than what you think others expect of you-The Personal Potential Trap
Spend time with your family (A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man)-Don Corleone
Pursue what you need before you pursue what you want A: what we need tends to be the exact opposite of what we want-Maslow's Pyramids)
'Yes and' others ideas, don't 'No, but' them' or 'No, because' them-The AI Model
Don't assume what always has happened also will continue to happen-Bertrand Russell
Question the things we take for granted-Bertrand Russell
Don't be afraid of stiring up negative feelings among the group you're leading (An open conflict is better than one that simmers and builds unresolved through several stage)-The Drexler-Sibbet Team Performance Model
Be prepared to make the first mistake as the group's leader-The Drexler-Sibbet Team Performance Model
(as a leader) Pick good men to do what you want done-Theodore Roosevelt
(as a leader) Keep from meddling with the men you chose to do a task-Theodore Roosevelt
If you have a good idea, but fear that it may meet with strong resistance, try to lead the discussion in such a way that the other members of the group think that they came up with the idea themselves-The Role-Playing Model
Plan your project so that it is 'finished' three times before it is actually finished ie. Have three drafts that get critiqued and refined-The Result Optimization Model
Draw while you talk
Draw while you present (The audience receives the information twice. The audience is able to see the process)
Draw simple unsophisticated pictures when presenting/explaining a model (eg. Stick men)
Don't go back and correct mistakes when you're drawing while teaching/explaining
Big Ideas
You are always subject to four different perspectives
1.How you see yourself
2.How you would like to see yourself
3.How others see you
4.How others would like to see you
There are 4 ways people approach other people's idea
1.The fault finder: 'yes but..'
2.The Dictator 'No'
3.The Teacher: 'The idea isn't good because'
4.The AI Thinker 'Yes and…"
The problem for most people is not that they aim too high, but that they aim too low and reach it-Michelangelo
Our thoughts become words-The Talmud
Our words become actions-The Talmud
Our actions become habits-The Talmud
Our habits become our character-The Talmud
We regret the things we do more than the things we don't do-Lucile Ball
Anyone can criticize-Benjamin Franklin
3 steps that happen when someone does something new -Mahatma Gandhi
1.people laugh at you/the idea
2.people fight you/the idea
3.You win
The poor wish to be rich-Ann Landers
The rich wish to be happy-Ann Landers
The single wish to be married-Ann Landers
The married wish to be dead-Ann Landers
A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man-Don Corleone